didds wrote:have you done similar when you've gone out for the evening?
Or could you?
Is she actually saying "you don;t pull your weight in the house" ?
(No idea - not intending to sound judgemental! But after 25 years this is why I get "asked" to do chores it seems. On top of sorting everything financial.)
didds
She knows I'm inherently lazy when it comes to household chores. That's why I had a cleaner before I met her. We currently have an arrangement whereby I do half the shopping, the hoovering, the washing up and any maintenance jobs around the place that need doing. She does pretty much everything else, including the ironing (which I hate), so I'm under no illusion that I've got a pretty good deal here.
It was just being left a list of things to do while she went out that rankled. But not enough for me to make a fuss (in front of her) in case she hands me the iron!
HYD