You also touch on another important point where you acknowledge that a particular method of dealing with these situations that suits you best *now* might well change in the future as you become more accustomed to living with things on a longer ongoing basis, and where you'll then possibly be quite happy to take a more relaxed approach to this issue than the one that might suit you more at this particular point in time, and I think taking both of these aspects into account and appreciating that not only is there some flexibility in the types of approach you can take now, but also that there's likely to be some flexibility in what type of approach you might want to take going forward over what will hopefully be many years of retirement, puts you in a good position of open-mindedness around these issues that's likely to pay ongoing benefits from here on in..
and breath!!!!