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Dreading a call from an overseas relative....

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Dreading a call from an overseas relative....

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Postby TUK020 » October 5th, 2022, 8:04 pm

...asking what is going on with the British political process.
These enquiries having been getting steadily more incredulous since Brexit.
My embarrassment is such that I am starting to avoid the calls

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Re: Dreading a call from an overseas relative....

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Postby Lootman » October 5th, 2022, 8:09 pm

TUK020 wrote:...asking what is going on with the British political process.
These enquiries having been getting steadily more incredulous since Brexit.
My embarrassment is such that I am starting to avoid the calls

Could it be that people who elect to permanently leave the UK for whatever reason are possibly predisposed to see the UK in an unfavourable light anyway?

Of course we have even amongst our enlightened membership here at least one pro-Remain Lemon who loved the EU so much that he moved to the continent that is the furthest away from the EU, and well before Brexit. So there is that. :D

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Re: Dreading a call from an overseas relative....

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Postby swill453 » October 5th, 2022, 8:15 pm

Lootman wrote:Could it be that people who elect to permanently leave the UK for whatever reason

I don't see any mention of people who have left the UK.

Scott.

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Re: Dreading a call from an overseas relative....

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Postby Lootman » October 5th, 2022, 8:18 pm

swill453 wrote:
Lootman wrote:Could it be that people who elect to permanently leave the UK for whatever reason

I don't see any mention of people who have left the UK.

Did you miss the "overseas relative" part?

OK, they could have been born overseas or be a relative through marriage. But chances are that if you have overseas relatives then they either made a conscious decision to leave the UK or else made a conscious decision to not return here having that right.

Personally I would take their call and tell them it is none of them damn business what the UK voters want.

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Re: Dreading a call from an overseas relative....

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Postby chas49 » October 5th, 2022, 8:20 pm

Lootman wrote:
swill453 wrote:
Lootman wrote:Could it be that people who elect to permanently leave the UK for whatever reason

I don't see any mention of people who have left the UK.

Did you miss the "overseas relative" part?

OK, they could have been born overseas or be a relative through marriage. But chances are that if you have overseas relatives then they either made a conscious decision to leave the UK or else made a conscious decision to not return here having that right.

Personally I would take their call and tell them it is none of them damn business what the UK voters want.


You're assumimg the OP is a British national.....

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Re: Dreading a call from an overseas relative....

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Postby swill453 » October 5th, 2022, 8:21 pm

Lootman wrote:
swill453 wrote:
Lootman wrote:Could it be that people who elect to permanently leave the UK for whatever reason

I don't see any mention of people who have left the UK.

Did you miss the "overseas relative" part?

No. HTH.

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Re: Dreading a call from an overseas relative....

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Postby Lootman » October 5th, 2022, 8:22 pm

chas49 wrote:
Lootman wrote:
swill453 wrote:
Lootman wrote:Could it be that people who elect to permanently leave the UK for whatever reason

I don't see any mention of people who have left the UK.

Did you miss the "overseas relative" part?

OK, they could have been born overseas or be a relative through marriage. But chances are that if you have overseas relatives then they either made a conscious decision to leave the UK or else made a conscious decision to not return here having that right.

Personally I would take their call and tell them it is none of them damn business what the UK voters want.

You're assuming the OP is a British national.....

Not necessarily. But I am assuming that this alleged "overseas relative" has some connection to the UK and probably a right to reside here, which they elect to not take up.

Perhaps the OP can clarify for us?

swill453 wrote:HTH.

English?

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Re: Dreading a call from an overseas relative....

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Postby swill453 » October 5th, 2022, 10:59 pm

Lootman wrote:
swill453 wrote:HTH.

English?

Hope This Helps. HTH :D

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Re: Dreading a call from an overseas relative....

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Postby TUK020 » October 6th, 2022, 7:51 am

Lootman wrote:
chas49 wrote:
Lootman wrote:
swill453 wrote:
Lootman wrote:Could it be that people who elect to permanently leave the UK for whatever reason

I don't see any mention of people who have left the UK.

Did you miss the "overseas relative" part?

OK, they could have been born overseas or be a relative through marriage. But chances are that if you have overseas relatives then they either made a conscious decision to leave the UK or else made a conscious decision to not return here having that right.

Personally I would take their call and tell them it is none of them damn business what the UK voters want.

You're assuming the OP is a British national.....

Not necessarily. But I am assuming that this alleged "overseas relative" has some connection to the UK and probably a right to reside here, which they elect to not take up.

Perhaps the OP can clarify for us?

swill453 wrote:HTH.

English?

I am a UK national. The relative I am talking of is a French cousin in law. His questions are friendly, not pointed. He is an English teacher in France, keen on all things British, and trying to make sense of what is going on here. His questions always assume there is some sense behind what the UK is up to, but that he doesn't understand it. This is what makes trying to explain some of the mess so painful. There is a limit to the number of times you can say "Because they are idiots"

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Re: Dreading a call from an overseas relative....

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Postby Howyoudoin » October 6th, 2022, 8:20 am

TUK020 wrote:
Lootman wrote:
chas49 wrote:
Lootman wrote:
swill453 wrote:I don't see any mention of people who have left the UK.

Did you miss the "overseas relative" part?

OK, they could have been born overseas or be a relative through marriage. But chances are that if you have overseas relatives then they either made a conscious decision to leave the UK or else made a conscious decision to not return here having that right.

Personally I would take their call and tell them it is none of them damn business what the UK voters want.

You're assuming the OP is a British national.....

Not necessarily. But I am assuming that this alleged "overseas relative" has some connection to the UK and probably a right to reside here, which they elect to not take up.

Perhaps the OP can clarify for us?

swill453 wrote:HTH.

English?

I am a UK national. The relative I am talking of is a French cousin in law.


People in glass houses and all that.

HYD

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Re: Dreading a call from an overseas relative....

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Postby dealtn » October 6th, 2022, 8:54 am

TUK020 wrote: There is a limit to the number of times you can say "Because they are idiots"


Well if your answer to such enquiries is such it's hardly difficult to wonder why he keeps repeating the question. Your answer provides nothing of substance by way of explanation.

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Re: Dreading a call from an overseas relative....

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Postby UncleEbenezer » October 6th, 2022, 10:51 am

dealtn wrote:
TUK020 wrote: There is a limit to the number of times you can say "Because they are idiots"


Well if your answer to such enquiries is such it's hardly difficult to wonder why he keeps repeating the question. Your answer provides nothing of substance by way of explanation.

I expect that's precisely why he finds it frustrating. The foreign relative is under the misapprehension that there must be something of substance by way of explanation.

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Re: Dreading a call from an overseas relative....

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Postby servodude » October 6th, 2022, 10:51 am

dealtn wrote:
TUK020 wrote: There is a limit to the number of times you can say "Because they are idiots"


Well if your answer to such enquiries is such it's hardly difficult to wonder why he keeps repeating the question. Your answer provides nothing of substance by way of explanation.


Indeed. Why is there a limit?

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Re: Dreading a call from an overseas relative....

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Postby Lootman » October 6th, 2022, 1:24 pm

Howyoudoin wrote:
TUK020 wrote:
Lootman wrote:Perhaps the OP can clarify for us?

I am a UK national. The relative I am talking of is a French cousin in law.

People in glass houses and all that.

Indeed, I find French politics to be inexplicable. Many people do not understand American politics. Everyone disapproves of Russian politics.

It is surely natural to be baffled by other cultures, and typically their politics follows from their culture and their values.

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Re: Dreading a call from an overseas relative....

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Postby XFool » October 7th, 2022, 10:14 am

UncleEbenezer wrote:
dealtn wrote:
TUK020 wrote: There is a limit to the number of times you can say "Because they are idiots"

Well if your answer to such enquiries is such it's hardly difficult to wonder why he keeps repeating the question. Your answer provides nothing of substance by way of explanation.

I expect that's precisely why he finds it frustrating. The foreign relative is under the misapprehension that there must be something of substance by way of explanation.

Exactly so! :)

One might as easily reply by saying: "So then, a perfect match for current government policies"

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Re: Dreading a call from an overseas relative....

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Postby didds » October 7th, 2022, 5:03 pm

Lootman wrote:Did you miss the "overseas relative" part?


I've got an Australian cousin.
She was born in Australia.

Her parents were there on UK official business when she was born.


???


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