neversay wrote:perhaps the secret to being a good road warrior is more elusive? Somehow I need to simplify the experience and remove some of the mental and physical hurdles that make it so tiring.
In the style of Baz Luhrmann, my gift to you is "organisation".
Move as much "stuff" as you can into the working week and out of the weekend. Coming home with a bag full of dirty washing? If you know your hotel, and your expense policy allows it, use their laundry. Nothing beats coming home with a suitcase of cleaned and ironed shirts. (Nb. if the hotel is unknown to you, be prepared for a "lost laundry" event. I only used the service at hotels I was a regular of.)
If expenses won't stretch to hotel laundry, you can usually find a laundrette nearby (obviously, it depends where you're staying and your schedule). Worst case, wash clothes at home, but iron in the hotel - don't waste your precious weekend on chores that can be done whilst away.
Expenses cover the bar bill? Don't. Really, just don't. I know too many formerly brilliant guys who "relaxed" a little too much, too often. It really does have a long-term impact.
Partner: my employer didn't care whose name was on the ticket, so instead of traveling home at the weekend, I sometimes used the flight to bring Mrs VRD out to wherever I was. I could usually blag the Friday/Sunday night hotel costs by holding late/early meetings that wouldn't have been possible had I been traveling (but do check!). I was always surprised with the itinerary that Mrs VRD planned - I got to see a lot more of the places I was working when she did the research and dragged me round them!
One trip, she joined me in Toronto before we traveled together into the USA. We bought mountain bikes whilst we were there, which shipped back to Toronto (which is a great city to cycle in). The only pain was my room being on the 23rd floor, which is a lot of steps with a bicycle if you've lost a bet... Other trips she's joined me in Oz, New Zealand, Indonesia, European cities etc. etc. It's a good use of air miles as well.
Research your "rewards". Are you getting cashback on expenses put through a credit card (assuming you're allowed to not use the company Amex...) airmiles or any other perks. Hotel loyalty (Marriott seem to have the best, but others are available). Clocking free hotel nights to use later is always nice. (I know, you've stayed in a hotel and want to go home, so they reward you with.... more hotel nights!) Air miles and hotel loyalty schemes can really add up; just don't get fooled into the rubbish ones where the taxes and surcharges make a flight more expensive with points than just buying the pesky thing! I mention this stuff, as being credited with future R&R has a calming effect on me when I'm stressed with the current travel arrangements.
Airlines do look after their frequent flyers. Make sure you register for and collect all the points. I've had several free hotel nights courtesy of an airline after I've messed up and missed a flight, but a smile and a chat at the desk can work wonders.
I always packed the day before traveling - which was depressing, but less stressful than packing just before leaving the house, especially when I had to set the alarm for 03:30 anyway... If you use the packing list as suggested in previous posts, you should be able to de-stress the event, which will give you back your Sunday evenings etc. I'd pack Sunday morning in preference to the evening, as it was less depressing (for me).
Eating: some people hate eating in restaurants alone. Take a book/kindle/phone with you and relax: you are being paid to eat there - the others are paying. I used to hate it, but necessity and practise made it quite enjoyable; a bit of "quiet time" when I didn't have to worry about my clients. If you do order room service, put the tray out a.s.a.p - you don't want the smell of leftovers lingering in the room.
Activities: some clients I would play squash with, some we would go out to look at the sites, or just meet for a meal. Sometimes I would be a hermit, go to the gym and get an early night. Do what works for you. Avoid making obligations that will disrupt your time back at home (pressure to get a report / results / etc sorted before your return next week that will mess up your weekend - a big no-no. Divorces have been caused by lessor misdemeanors.)
Routine: get one. From packing to travel itinerary to backup plan for lost documents. Knowing you have a playbook for each scenario means you don't have to mentally rehearse the what-ifs. That leaves you free to focus on the purpose of the trip, not the mechanics.
Finally, if you fly regularly for work and don't miss three flights a year, you're getting to the airport too early. Stop wasting (your own) time*.
As Baz said:
be careful whose advice you buy, but
be patient with those who supply it
Advice is a form of nostalgia
dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off
painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it's worth
But trust me...
VRD
*Holiday flights excluded